February 23, 2012

Get an Idea of Birthday Traditions from Other Countries

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Every family has its own traditions when it comes to celebrating birthdays, and so does every country. You may be surprised to find that not everyone throws a birthday party, bakes a cake, and sings to the guest of honor every year. Consider some different birthday traditions from around the world, as you may get a few new ideas.

In Aruba, it is traditional for the birthday child to bring a small treat to class for their classmates and teachers, while the teachers usually give the child a small present in exchange. In China, birthday children tend to get both money and noodles from their parents, as this food is reputed to help them live a long life.  In Denmark, the birthday child wakes up to find presents around his bed, and his family usually puts a flag up at the house to show that it is someone’s birthday.

Some countries celebrate specific birthdays in a special way. For example, girls in Bolivia wear all white and dance the waltz with boys when they turn 16 years old. In Argentina, the best age to turn is 15, as this calls for a big party where the birthday girl gets to dance the waltz with boys, similar to Bolivians. Another country where the waltz is apparently popular is Brazil, where girls do this dance with 15 boys on their 15th birthday.

On the other hand, Cubans tend to celebrate birthdays similar to those in the U.S., though their parties are often larger since they invite nearly everyone they know. Whether you are looking to merely tweak your current birthday traditions, or want to give them a complete overhaul, consider these ideas from other countries.

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The Importance of Keeping Family Holiday Traditions

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One of the first things many couples think about when starting a family is traditions. Most families have at least a few, and the goal is usually to keep them going for years, perhaps coming up with a couple more along the way. It is helpful to consider the importance of family traditions since they play a big role in everyday life.

Firstly, traditions tend to connect several generations together. You may not have much in common with your great-grandparents, and you have probably never even met your great-great-grandparents, but you might still do the same things as they did during the holidays. It is often nice to know that something that started several years ago can still be done today.

In fact, the idea that traditions do not tend to change is comforting to many people, as everyday life changes so much. You may lose family members every few years, but you will probably still do the same traditions when you get together with the rest of your relatives, which means that even death cannot ruin some things.

Another benefit of longstanding family traditions is that you have something to look forward to every year as holidays approach. You might not know whether your Christmas or birthday presents will be as good as last year’s, and you might not be sure that your Thanksgiving food will be as tasty, but at least you know that the traditions will be there. This means that you will still decorate the tree with the family while holiday music plays, or you will still all gather to watch a particular movie, no matter what. This aspect is often comforting.

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